Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Relationships

Do you take time out to make sure you are equipped to handle your relationships? Do you believe you were born with the knowledge of how to manage the people that come into your life or do you understand we can learn this skill ? I think everyone has some basic skill of dealing with the people in our lives.  We watch our parents and friends and learn how to respond to people. I've always believed the person with the best ability to mange their relationships Wins in the game of life.  Some people have such great control and tact while others are just the worse to be around. Personality is a big deal on how you handle this but it is not the most dominate factor. We all have the ability to make a choices and we can choose to become informed. You do not have to rely on what you learned growing up. Sure you cant change who you are but you can change how you respond.

There are tons of books on dealing with relationships. There are books for couples and business, Books for dealing with kids and family. These books give in depth knowledge on different ways to handle the people in your life. I would suggest if you are not happy with your relationships, you having problems keeping your man or your kids don't listen to you or what ever the situation may be. You may want to start looking at yourself as the cause of the problem and not just a victim. Don't be scared to look inside of you and say I can get better. Self help books Ihave found to be amazing at redirecting how I see things. I continue to read them and apply what I feel fits me. The changes will not be over night but you will see by applying small changes over a period of time your approach to people will become stronger and more efficient.

Some great E books on persuasion and love are available at the link provided below. Good luck and God Bless.

http://www.goodmenneedtraining.com/services/